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Eight Reasons to Join a Small Group
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1. You will understand the Bible better in a small group.
If you’ve ever
listened to a Bible teacher or preacher and wanted to stop that person and
say, "But what about...?" or "I don’t understand," then a small group is for
you! Preaching and teaching is one way communication. You listen while the
speaker speaks. It’s fine for imparting knowledge but not as effective for
personal application as a small group. In a small group setting, you can ask
questions, participate in a discussion of the text, and hear others share
insights and illustrations of the truth you are trying to grasp. The Bible
must be applied to your own personal situations and that happens best in
small groups.
2. You will begin to really feel like part of God´s
family.
Most people who have
been a part of a group say the greatest benefit is the close relationships
and friendships that develop. They will frequently telephone each other
during the week to share an urgent prayer request or an exciting answer.
You’ll discover that your needs and problems are not unique ~ we’re all in
the same boat. It helps to know that others are facing the same
difficulties, or have lived through them and learned spiritual principles in
the process.
Over fifty times in the New Testament the phrase "one another" is used to
describe our relationship to other believers. We are instructed to love one
another, encourage one another, pray for one another, accept one another,
bear one another’s burdens, and build up one another. One of the greatest
ways to obey these commands is in a small group! We really do need each
other. God never meant for you to go it alone in the Christian life. If
you’re lonely, the answer to your problem is to join a group.
3. Prayer will become more meaningful to you.
Many people are
hesitant to pray in front of others, especially in a church setting. In a
small group of 6 to 12, you will learn to participate in prayer by having a
conversation together with God. No one is pressured to pray, but as you
become comfortable, you’ll be able to pray sentence prayers and join in.
There are many promises in the Bible related to group prayer. In praying
together with a few others, we are drawn together and we find answers to the
needs in our lives.
4. You will be able to handle stress and pressure better.
Small groups provide
excellent support in times of crisis, change, and stress. You’ll have a
sense of stability and security knowing there are people who really care for
you and are committed to standing with you.
When someone loses a job, or a family member has an extended illness, or a
mother needs a babysitter - these are practical needs that will be naturally
taken care of through your small group. Your group will coordinate the
sharing of hot meals to be brought in when your family is in need. Many
people in our church could testify that they would not have made it through
a difficult time if it hadn’t been for the support of their group.
5. You will have a natural way to share Christ with friends, relatives, and work associates.
It may be that some
of your friends who don’t know the Lord wouldn’t be caught dead in a church.
They have a preconceived idea and just the thought makes them defensive. But
those same people may be open to an invitation to a casual Bible discussion
in a home or office setting. In a small group, your unbelieving friend can
ask questions and express honest doubts without feeling "put on the spot".
When your friend sees the love and warmth and honesty of your group, it will
make him more receptive to the Good News.
6. You will develop leadership skills you never knew you had!
The Bible teaches
that every believer is given certain talents or "gifts" to benefit others in
the family of God. Unfortunately most Christians remain as Sunday morning
spectators all their lives because large group meetings are primarily "sit
and listen" situations. As you share and participate in a relaxed small
group setting, you’ll discover your confidence and self-esteem rising. This
will help you at work, at church, and in every other relationship.
7. You will deepen your understanding of worship.
Many believers
mistakenly believe that worship can only happen on Sunday morning in a large
group with a sermon, a choir, and an offering plate! Worship happens anytime
we focus on God. Sometimes that happens best in a smaller group.
8. You will be a New Testament Christian!
The book of Acts is
very clear about how God intends for His people to grow and have their needs
met in the church. We will never be able to hire enough professional pastors
to meet all the individual needs in our family. God never intended for it to
be that way!
Consider
these verses:
"They devoted themselves to the apostles teaching and to
the fellowship, to the breaking of bread, and to prayer. All
the believers were together and had everything in common.
Every day they continued to meet together... they broke
bread in their homes and ate together... and the Lord added
to their number daily those who were being saved." Acts
2:42, 44, 46-47
"Day after day, in the temple courts and from house to house
they never stopped teaching and proclaiming the Good News
that Jesus is the Christ." Acts 5:42
"Greet also the church that meets at their house." Rom. 16:5
"Aquilla and Priscilla greet you warmly in the Lord and so
does the church that meets at their house."
I Cor. 16: 19
"Give my greetings...to Nympha and the church in her house."
Col. 4: 15
I am excited about the incredible potential of the network
of small groups we’re building within First Christian Church
of Derby. Small Groups have these eight benefits that no
believer can afford to pass up. If you are not participating
in a group, why not join one this week?
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Rich Franz (Associate Minister)
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